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Great Places to Meet Single Men!  This banner headline can get more attention from women than a sandwich at a picnic can get from ants! And it’s no wonder.  According to the U.S. Census Bureau in 2009, there were only 88 single men for every 100 single women over the age of 18. And the gap widens over the age of forty. Stacked deck, anyone?
Even with the Internet beckoning to us, there are many single women on both sides of forty who would like to meet a potential mate in person before beginning a relationship. Therefore, much has been written about how and where to do this. Here are five suggestions I’ve come across recently: business conferences/seminars; car, boat, and RV shows; libraries; weddings; and hosting your own singles mixer. Sounds good in theory, not so good in practice.  Here’s why.
            (1) Business conferences and seminars.  Having been in business for years, I have attended many of these functions.  I can honestly say, the single men who also attend are there to work – not flirt!  They are usually ambitious men who are climbing the ladder of success, earning points with their bosses, etc.  Does this sound like men who are there to meet women and begin a meaningful relationship?  Unless they are twenty years old, and you are really hot, probably not! 
            (2) Car, Boat and RV shows.  These are usually filled with single men.  And most single men are there with their buddies, whose full attention is on the cars, boats, RV’s, and the very young, nubile models who are sitting in or on the cars, boats and RV’s.  
Enough said.
            (3) The public library. This one has me saying, “Really?”   It is presumed that intellectual, frugal men visit there routinely.  Well, perhaps they do, and that’s good if you want to hook up with an elderly, retired gentleman living on a fixed income, or a young student who’s too broke to buy his own computer.  Personally, I’d rather take my chances at the coffee shop in Barnes & Noble, where at least the presumed intellectuals can afford a mocha latte!
            (4) Weddings.  I have always enjoyed weddings, and will attend even if I barely know the bride and groom. But, have you ever seen a movie where single men attend weddings just to hook up with a hot chick for a one-nighter?  Funny on film, not so fun in reality.  Let’s face it: we women love weddings because it means one of our own got lucky and found Mr. Right.  Men love weddings because it means they may get lucky
and not have to become Mr. Right!  And eventually, you can run out of friends and acquaintances who are getting married.  So, unless you want to be a one-nighter or a wedding crasher, your options here are limited.
            (5) Last, and definitely “least” is my personal favorite, “Host Your Own Singles Mixer.” Invite your girlfriends and have them bring two single male friends.  Well...if any of my girlfriends knew two eligible, single men, (a) they wouldn’t need the mixer, and (b) who said they would want to share?  Again, enough said.
Okay, so the reasons why these may not be the greatest places to meet men don’t mean they couldn’t work for you…serendipity does exist!  Just realize that attending anyplace that is recommended as a “great place to meet singles” with the expectation of actually meeting one will usually disappoint.  It has been observed that many single women over forty who have happily remarried, or are in a successful relationship, have met Mr. Right while simply going through the everyday process of living.  Yes, meeting a potential mate is a numbers game – and if you want to win, you have to play. But play by your own rules, follow your instincts, and don’t rule out serendipity!
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